This article was written by KCBT member Rod Suydam
It is said that every child has that one adult in their life that has greatly influenced them. Perhaps you can recall the mentor of your childhood? Was it a math, English, art or music teacher? Was it your grandfather that took you hunting, fishing, or on tractor rides through the pastures? Maybe it was your Grandmother as she spoke wisdom from the garden rows or served your favorite homemade pie? For me it was a baseball coach.
School was out for the summer and I was excited to get to my first baseball practice. While hurriedly peddling my bike down the street the front wheel lost traction in the gravel. The fall was abrupt and graceless. I found myself sprawled in pain in the middle of the street. It was all I could do to pick myself up and finish the journey to the ball field. Upon arriving I quickly made a desperate bee-line for the coach. I exposed my painful, bloody wounds and erupted into uncontrollable sobs.
The coach promptly attended to my wounds with Bactine, applied band-aids and cheered my heart with words of comfort. When finished his final encouragement came in the form of a swat on the backside, a nudge towards the ball field and a wish for a good practice.
I always watched Coach Bennet. The way that he ran the leagues and coached our team. The manner in which he talked to us kids. He was a pillar in the community. He played with his grandkids in his big back yard. They later named the high school gym after him. All he really did for that honor was to spend time coaching us, the neighborhood kids.
The Blue Ridge Sports Association provides an amazing opportunity to serve the community kids and their families. Many come to us with painful scrapes on their lives. I presently have three boys on my team whose dads have passed away. They were quick to tell me that. The season has begun and now twelve sets of eyes look to you.
A coach in our league does not merely throw a ball on the field and say “Now go play guys while I sit here and watch”. It is so much more exciting than that. For the next ten weeks we become Baseball/Softball Coaches. This entails the responsibilities that are inclusive of the following: part time Public Relations Administrator, part Meteorologist, part Psychologist , part Drill Instructor, part Nurse, part Pastor, part athletic authoritarian, part mentor, part Dad, part Mom - yet full time Coach.
As Yogi Berra once said, “90% of the game is half mental”.
In my opinion we are stewards of the best league in the metro area. This happens because of the quality of coaches that set the mood for this ministry.
If this task seems daunting there are a few resources to enable you to be the effective coach that you were meant to be.
- Remember that God has called you into his work. What he has called you to do he will also do it! We have a great church family and Pastors that will equip you for the work of the ministry. The Spirit will lead. All you have to do is to listen and obey. Keep life that simple.
- Athletic Director Scott Gates does a great job overseeing the entire ministry. Whether you need help with scheduling, equipment, spiritual questions, coaching or demonstrating the baseball fundamental “how-to’s”, he will be there for your every need.
- Plug in somewhere to catch the fever. We are always in need of coaches, scorekeepers, umpires, grounds crew, concession stand worker, photographers, trash picker uppers, weed pullers, grass mowers and so much more. Learn to grow in the largest ministry of KCBT. Exercise your gifts and faith by working with young boys and girls who come to us to learn to play baseball. As a special bonus unbeknownst to them, they also learn Christ! It’s not too late to get involved.
- Division Leaders and Veteran Coaches. There are key people in the place of leadership that have “been there and done that” and made every mistake along the way. They have studied and perfected the ministry. They have given themselves wholly to it. Feel free to ask them any questions or ask for help for areas of weakness that you may have. Perhaps it is how to deal with a parent in a tense situation, rule interpretation, or how to instruct the five steps of pitching.
- Be a student of the game! Buy the books. Rent the DVD’s. Search the web. Talk to a professional instructor. Play the game yourself! Cal Ripken has great resources for both coaches and players. The more fundamentally minded you are the better coach you will be.
- Join the DR team. Each winter, Scott Gates and I lead a BRSA ministry team to Santiago, Dominican Republic. Yes, while you are hibernating, shoveling snow, and enduring freezing temperatures, some of our very own are playing baseball on a tropical island that is beautiful, warm and sunny. What a life! As great as that may seem there is a sacrifice involved on our part. We organize 15-20 committed team members. Their gifts, athletic talent, or involvement does not matter. Practice begins in the fall with the Adult Softball League. For four months we practice in the areas of baseball fundamentals, discipleship, missions and ministry leadership. While in the DR we lead a week long baseball clinic for boys ages 13-16. We minister to the missionaries and the community. We also provide a discipleship conference for the local Pastors. Then at night we play a week long double-header tournament of fast-pitch softball with local teams. Upon our return to Kansas City, we provide a baseball/softball clinic for our own BRSA kids. Click here for the 2008 trip summary.
We invite you to come join our team! For more info, contact Scott Gates at 816.358.0988 x 2137.
May your kids learn baseball as being fun and see Christ as Savior this season!