Dear Everyone:
Here’s the newest update. Mark and I are currently in Jax, FL and we are returning to KC tomorrow to begin packing our belongings for the move. We feel like we have lived in a whirlwind the last month with so many things going on around us - but God has been so good to us in every minute of the highs and lows. Here’s a bullet point look at our last month:
February 1st - We found families for our two puppies (they were both one year old) Gizmo and Bella - Gizmo is at home now with Dr. Updahl and his family and Bella (now named Baby) is at home with The Kellar’s. They re-named her since they have a 4 year old daughter named Isabella and they call her Bella. Both of the dogs are doing great and they LOVE their new homes. We miss them, but we know God has given them even better homes than we could provide…they have kids to play with them and they live only houses apart - so even Baby and Gizmo get to play together.
February 4th - We put our house on the Market and began to show it.
February 11th - We got a contract on our house - in one week, it sold!
February 19-26 - We left KC for Jacksonville to find a home. Within a few days, we found the home for us. We had prayed that God would give us no more than what we had in KC - He was so good to allow us to find something that had the space we would need for entertaining friends (four bedrooms/three baths) and Mark even got a three car garage. The house is nice and we have a 2 1/2 acre pond in the back complete with bass, birds, a large turtle family and some otters that return every year.
February 27th - We thought we were going to get to be home for about a week, but Neal called and some things were up in the air with the deployment so rather than take a chance and miss them, we got on a plane and left for Jacksonville, NC arriving late that night. We were there, along with Amy’s mom, Irma. It was good to be with them and help get all their things packed…they needed the help for sure.
March 2nd - Irma returned home to KC and we left for Salt Lake City where Mark and Jeff would lead a ski retreat with many of our friends and contacts. Neal and Amy’s deployement was only changed by one day. So after the retreat, we left Salt Lake City and returned to Jacksonville, NC to see them one final time.
March 2-8th - We spent this time making the final move of their furniture to the storage unit and tying up all the loose ends. We got a hotel for the last two nights in Jacksonville, so we could sleep in a bed…the floor was starting to get hard for all of us
We just are not young anymore and all this moving was about to kill us - and yet, we haven’t even started our own moving yet! Yikes! Thank God for our friends in KC who have been helping us so we can see and help our kids. It was hard to say good-bye as you can imagine, but we did it and they were on their way….we at least we thought they were. About 15 minutes after we returned to the hotel (at 1:30am on Sat. morning) Neal called and said that as the crew was pulling the jet to the loading area, they had gotten one of the landing gear in the mud so they were not going to leave until 1:30pm — so Mark left immediately and picked them up — good thing we kept their hotel room! They were able to go to bed and rest - they really needed the sleep too. Those kids were so tired. We all woke up the next morning and ate together then headed off for the base to say good-bye once again.
This time was easier as the night before was so hard. Megan (my smart daughter-in-law) said it best “for some reason, it is easier to say good-bye in the daytime rather than the evening when it is so dark…the night seems to make it more difficult.” I think she is right! The kids were more rested and they were even having a good time with us and each other just laughing so when we said good-bye and left them, they were doing so good and their were no tears - they stood in the doorway of the staging area and just waved at us like crazy - it was so them and that scene comforts my heart even now - though we miss them so very much already.
We talked with Ryan and Megan through all of this and yesterday, we all had a hard time knowing we couldn’t just pick up the phone and call them - we are already feeling the distance between us.
March 9-11th - We have been (and are currently as I write this) in Jacksonville, FL. We drove Neal’s car down here so we would have one less car to get to our new home. Mark preached Sunday and we are getting to know several people here. They have been so kind and such a blessing to us. One of the small groups is going to clean and paint the inside of our house for us. This will be a huge help.
March 12-28th - we will be packing our house and loading our things for the move.
On March 27th, we close on our KC house and they take possession April 1st.
March 29th - We have a party at the Nixon’s with some of our closest friends and family.
March 30th - Will be our last Sunday at KCBT and they will host a party for us in the gym from 5-7pm. Please come and see us there.
March 31st - we will have our final breakfast with the staff at KCBT and then I (Cathy) will leave for Florida. I am going to fly out early to close on our Florida house so we can take possession early to get the cleaning and painting done before Mark arrives with the goods on April 4th. Ryan, our son, will hopefully be coming with Mark to help drive.
As you can see…God has just ordered each step in His perfect timing. There was just so much going on that HE was the only one that could make everything just seem so in order. We haven’t even moved yet, but we have been gone from KC over the last month. We miss Ryan, Megan and the kids so much already and can’t wait to see them when we get home tomorrow. Many of you have asked how they are doing and Mark and I want you to know that we have the best kids…they are doing so well and are really supportive of us. We all know it will be difficult at times and we will miss each other very much, but there is no denying God’s hand in all of this…and that alone, gives us all so much comfort. We know that whatever HE starts, HE will see through to the end and will comfort us along the way - giving us chances to connect and see each other as we get settled. We are so grateful for HIS provision and hand over us in every situation. Besides….you all are part of our extended family and we know you will love our kids for us in our absence.
Keep praying for us as we pack and seriously, we do hope you will come and see us on March 30th at KCBT if you can. We love you and can’t thank you enough for you notes, letters, prayers and calls during this time of our lives…it is exciting and a faith journey for us. We will try to post some pictures of the house and family soon.
Our love,
Cathy and Mark